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Just playing around in the world of blogsphere…

Charcoal unto Pre-Birthdays… April 21, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jollacarmen @ 7:26 am

Two straight saturdays, bound with cool,lunatic, hippy group: the gorgeous eccentric girls and hansome comical boys, goes to Charcoal and celebrated the pre- phony birthdays. (meaning its not exactly their birthdays- haha)

Charcoal – known for a place where you can taste the famous baby back ribs,
Right indeed! they had the best grilled served back ribs, sweet yummy sauce with a full bowl spices on it (take note its unlimited) no kidding!, for those who wants to have their food with lots of spices, a right place for you.
They also serve other food either grill, soup, fried and even menu for seafood too.
Want proof? go there and savor… lol
(I dont know the exact address of Charcoal but its located at Escario St, same street from Roma Mia’s pizza resto)

We also celebrated Rendy’s and Maimai’s bday. Cecille made the home-cooked delectables (salad and pettucine) though the paste was over cooked still it was the yummiest and heavenly dish for that night, I even brought home some of it too…
That night we talk, we drink, we laugh, we enjoy and absolutely we have fun.
As a result a day of high-spirited blast. gaiety. priceless!
and oh I also got a sweet massage too… hehehe

the Evidence

want some?
the two phony celebrants… haha (actually rendy birthday is april 21 and mai2x is last april 3)

Cecille’s home-cooked delectables (pettucine and salad)
yumyum

and the rest…

THE ELITES… haha
 

SERENDIPITY April 17, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jollacarmen @ 8:14 am

Life is not merely a series of meaningless accidents or coincidences. But rather it’s a tapestry of events that culminate an exquisite, sublime plan.

Thats the lines said during the obituary scene in Serendipity; gosh I really love that movie and mind you Ive been watching it a hundred times all over again and I never get tired of it. Never!

I know we are bound of making an unsought findings and yet we still possess a powerful faith to believe that something somehow really exists“FATUM,” or what we currently refer to as DESTINY.

Have you ever feel secretly clung to the belief that we do have our unknown side of psyche? protracted searching of unrevealed missing part and yearning of our long-reputed soul mate?

I DO, how bout you???

 

In a life that I can’t live April 14, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jollacarmen @ 7:56 am

Just late last night I watched news though Im not that so keen of watching news since Im sick of hearing those same old story all over again, like the undying war of politics, graft & corruption of government (that lozada thing?), crimes and violence, showbusiness (I think what is in is about the comeback of Gabby C. duh!), and latest one is the inflation of our economics that validates our country’s worsening poverty situation.
I could see that poverty in the country has made phenomenal widespread that obviously became insufficient to sustain for all out but our basic subsistence needs. Its frightening really terrifying…
A number of causes have been pinpointed, and one of them, is overpopulation. The paper shows that while the number of children ever born is indeed larger among poorer households. And to think how will ever survive it especially nowadays that all accomodites are being increased? Sad to say the reality tells that poor became poorer and rich became filthier… lol

How could I wish that all the people could do something ’bout this (at least one is to become aware for the current situation)… soon enough or before its too late.

PEOPLE HELP OURSELVES FOR THE BETTER!

on the lighter side – here’s a song from Tonic – You Wanter More…

Love is tragic
Love is bold
You will always do what you are told
Love is hard
Love is strong
You will never say that you were wrong
I don’t know when I got bitter
But love is surely better when it’s gone

‘Cause you wanted more
More than I could give
More than I could handle
In a life that I can’t live
You wanted more
More than I could bear
More than I could offer
For a love that isn’t there

Love is color
Love is loud
Love is never saying you’re too proud
Love is trusting
Love is honest
Love is not a hand to hold you down
I don’t know when I got bitter
But love is surely better when it’s gone

‘Cause you wanted more
More than I could give
More than I could handle
In a life that I can’t live

You wanted more
More than I could bear
More than I could offer
For a love that isn’t there

I got to pick me up when I am down
I got to get my feet back on the ground
I got to pick me up when I am done

I dont know when I got bitter
But love is surely better when it’s gone
I don’t know when I got bitter
But love is surely better when it’s gone
‘Cause you wanted more
More than I could give
More than I could handle
In a life that I can’t live
You wanted more
More than I could bear
More than I could offer
For a love that isn’t there

You wanted more
More than I could love
More than I could offer
The harder you would shove
You wanted more
More than I could give
More than I could handle
In a life that I can’t live

 

Episode 4.12: Where The Wild Things Are April 9, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jollacarmen @ 1:13 pm

Alas, its finally back! Grey’s Anatomy is on its way this coming April 24th.
Hurray Ive been undyingly waiting for this next episode, and after reading its spoiler gee I guess its gonna be dark and twisty to Meredith and Derek… again… huhuh

Anyway Grey’s Anatomy is currently on hiatus. Due to the strike, 16 of the 23 episodes will be completed. The series was renewed for a fifth season.

Sigh. At least there will be still another season for sure it would be a long run. I heard that creator Shonda Rhimes promises; old relationships will become new again, some people you thought would never get together will, and there are going to be some interesting outside influences; just hope this time it will be happily ever after to MERDER… for good.

all new episodes
start feeling
start healing
start living
start fresh
start watching: GREY’S ANATOMY

For more: click HERE

 

THE GREATEST ADVICE April 9, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jollacarmen @ 12:46 pm

Just saw this post to one of my frewnsters, well I kinda like it thats why I decided to repost this one to my blog , although melodramatic but its way too close to reality, or maybe this is the reality.

THE GREATEST ADVICE By Rick Warren, the Purpose Driven Life

Don’t date because you are desperate.
Don’t marry because you are miserable.
Don’t have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don’t philander because you think you are irresistible.

Don’t associate with people you can’t trust.
Don’t cheat. Don’t lie. Don’t pretend.
Don’t dictate because you are smarter.
Don’t demand because you are stronger.

Don’t sleep around because you think you are old enough & know better.
Don’t hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don’t sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don’t stagnate!

Don’t regress.
Don’t live in the past. Time can’t bring anything or anyone back.
Don’t put your life on hold for possibly Mr. Right.
Don’t throw your life away on absolutely Mr. Wrong because your
biological clock is ticking.

Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid for some
of life’s more hasty decisions.

To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don’t bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.

To make yourself happy, pursue your passions & be the best of what you
can be.
Simplify your life. Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and
dangerous liaisons.
Don’t abandon your responsibilities but don’t overdose on duty.

Don’t live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself.
Don’t commit when you are not ready.
Don’t keep others waiting needlessly.

Go on that trip. Don’t postpone it.
Say those words. Don’t let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society’s scorn.

Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.
Cry at the movies.

Take care of yourself. Don’t wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life.
You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you – except YOU.

It isn’t true that life does not get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don’t be afraid. Don’t lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.

Live your dreams.
Don’t lose faith in God.
Don’t grow old. Just grow YOU!

When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your
life that you’ll never get back.
Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give to
someone is your time.
Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves…

 

ABG, GAB, BGA, AGB April 4, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jollacarmen @ 1:01 pm

Spell it out for me, yes I want a ***!
Been looking for ages to keep my things in safe,
a black one to matches it all times
not so small and big one to look at…
with lots of hide outs for me to keep a secret
and the one that is perfectly made for me…

haha, how will find that?

and oh a gift is better of too… lol

I WANT A BAG!
duh whatever…. hehe

 

Lesson Learned April 4, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jollacarmen @ 12:41 pm

Ive finished watching this film last night and I wasnt satisfied with the ending; better yet Ive learned something from it…

“NEVER BEG A MAN”

Thats right! I know I’ll be sounds biased or unrealistic to other women but for me I’ll stand and stick firmly to this quote that I wont ever beg a man.

Its alright for you to say how much you love him, tell him that HE is your world, make him a part of you or maybe the whole of you, giving him and doing EVERYTHING, offering him that NO one else could offer, try and try until the last drip of your soul maybe giving your soul, make him your full of hope or INSPIRATION, tell him you could wait even it takes a lifetime but never try begging! NEVER!

so dont try begging!


–Realizing with my mistakes, yes I know I had never been enough for you.
-JC